4 Steps to Speak With More Confidence About Trans Stuff

You’re at a social gathering, standing there in a small circle with your sweating drink in hand, the residue of that handful of mixed nuts you just ate in your teeth. The conversation suddenly shifts to Caitlyn Jenner, and you feel the sudden urge to disappear. Your stomach gets tight, you begin to sweat. You Read More …

How to Be More Mindful of Your Language

This happened recently: I’m standing in line with my partner at a bookstore in Minneapolis while they purchase a book. As the bookstore employee is putting our books into a bag, my partner asks if I gave the clerk our coupon, and I responded quickly with “I already gave it to her.” I realized immediately Read More …

I Mean This With Love: All Trans* People Are Not the Same

Welcome to One Small Thing—my biweekly newsletter that provides you each time with one small thing you can start doing today to make a difference in the life of a person who identifies as transgender or gender non-conforming. Thank you for being here. Never in my lifetime—as relatively short as it’s been—has there been so Read More …

The One Thing You Need to Know About Using Preferred Gender Pronouns

Welcome to One Small Thing—my biweekly newsletter that provides you each time with one small thing you can start doing today to make a difference in the life of a person who identifies as transgender or gender non-conforming. Thank you for being here. Today I’m going to reveal the one thing you need to know Read More …

How to Start Right Where You Are

Welcome to One Small Thing—my biweekly newsletter that provides you each time with one small thing you can start doing today to make a difference in the life of a person who identifies as transgender or gender non-conforming. I’m so grateful you are here. I don’t know about you, but I feel like spring carries Read More …