3 Qualities of Being an Ally

The idea of being an ally is alluring to most of us, right? We want to be helpful, respectful human beings. We want to show our support. We want to do the best we know how to do. And sometimes it’s hard to know where to start. The amount of information to know can seem Read More …

Speaking the Names of Trans Women of Color

Last week I had the great fortune of spending three days on the North Shore of Lake Superior with my partner and their family. For those of you who are close to me, or if you read my interview on how I would describe my gender, you know that Lake Superior’s shores are one of Read More …

The One Thing You Need to Know About Using Preferred Gender Pronouns

Welcome to One Small Thing—my biweekly newsletter that provides you each time with one small thing you can start doing today to make a difference in the life of a person who identifies as transgender or gender non-conforming. Thank you for being here. Today I’m going to reveal the one thing you need to know Read More …